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Am Scared To Touch My Wife.

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Am Scared To Touch My Wife. by suxxman(m) : 6:22 pm On Sep 02, 2013

Am married with Kids, a boy and a girl.
Presently, My wife is heavily pregnant.
Its been over a month since we made love, the
reasons are:
1. I have to be the one to initiate intimacy
2. She cries when we are in the middle of love making
3. She never talks about our sex-life, even if i ask
why she it painful or what? no responce.
This have been the case evere since we got
married, she never say a word about our s*x life,i
have tried to sit her down on many occassion and have a one on one discussion with her, the only
response she says is..shebi i answer you anytime
you want sex.
When the crying occured the last time we made
love, i was filling guilty inside me, i feel am hurting
her and she is keeping quiet.Now I have refused to initiate s*x for over month and she is not bothered.
what do i do?

Re: Am Scared To Touch My Wife. by yawnmeadows47(m) : 6:20 pm On Nov 12, 2013

you should not be afraid to touch your wife.Your wife should be your pride and joy.Find ways to make her feel safe feel love or want to be touch.some women have a wall that they put up because they angry or hurt. let her know what every it is you there for herthat you love her unconditionally.

Re: Am Scared To Touch My Wife. by Diamondwriter(m) : 7:51 pm On Nov 12, 2013

U shud try harder to make her talk. It's very frustrating when you don't knw wat is going on in ur partner's life

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